We've heard it before. Healthy arguing is good for a relationship. Here's something many of us may not realize about arguing. According to an expert at naturalhealthmag.org it's not a win-lose situation. What? You go through all the trouble of being upset, having your blood pressure rise, trying desperately to get your point across, and nobody gets to win??

The experts say to "transfer your arguments into creative conflicts", which sounds easy enough, unless of course you're in the middle of one. And of course we all know that we shouldn't go to bed angry. Most husbands know this to be true. We usually don't go to bed angry. We go to the couch angry.