The Jersey Shore is full of great clubs, restaurants and social events, but if you're not sure you've connected with Mr. Right yet, don't worry. The experts want to help.

Those experts have come up with a list of ways to better know if a guy is the guy for you. Here's some advice on what to look for, and what not to look for, according to

If you're focusing more on potential than what is actually happening, then it may be time to move on, according to the experts. Or if you find yourself not being yourself, that is also a bad sign for you ant the relationship.

The experts also warn that if he "does not belong to you" because he's married, engaged or dating someone else, the future may not be so bright, or if the disadvantages outweigh the advantages of being with him, then it might be time to move on.

And here's one that doesn't always get mentioned. If he is always too busy with other things, then you can assume other things are his priority, and he may not be the Mr. Right you hoped he was.