Surprise Gifts Or Gifts You Ask For?

When it comes to Christmas gifts, some of like to get surprised, and some of us want to have a little say in what is under the tree.

I know that it's the thought that counts but let's get past that for a second and talk about what you really want. I have spoken to some people who love the surprise. The y want to rip that gift open without any clue of what might be in there.

Others I've spoken to have had their share of ugly sweaters, kitchen utensils and gifts they'll never wear or use, and they'd like to ask for some things they could use before the buyer (usually the husband) does any buying.

So, I guess what we're asking here ladies is, would you rather have your guy totally surprise you no matter what the gift, or would you like to be a part of the decision making process before he makes the purchase.