In my own non-professional experience, here's what I've found to be true. As upset as you may be for getting pulled over, put your ego aside. The shoulder of the Garden State Parkway isn't a good place to debate the police. You will lose the roadside argument 100% of the time.
Let's assume that you are going 95 MPH on a highway in New Jersey that has a posted 65 MPH speed limit and you suddenly see a state trooper in your rearview mirror.
A website recently ranked the worst cities in New Jersey; 11 of their 20 towns are in South Jersey, including some very small communities. Is your hometown on the list?